photo taken by Angela Speiker

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Happy New Year and reflecting on the decade


Happy 2010!
So it's already 2 weeks into the new year and I'm behind--some things never change. As I post these pictures I really want to focus on looking back over the last year, and for that matter, the last decade. It amazes me that at the beginning of the decade we had just moved into our first house. We were fairly fresh in this "marriage" thing and continuing to learn about one another every day. We were also just starting our careers and jobs that we both LOVED. I had finally found a teaching job at a fabulous school with an incredible teaching partner, and students whom I still remain in touch with and hold close to my heart always. Skip was beginning a job at UST finally living his dream in a job that involved talking golf every day. Throughout the next few years he would gain confidence and experience as he travelled out on tour with the PGA multiple times. He added stamps to his passport by taking trips overseas. He met some amazing people and got to live his dream, getting paid to play golf in places like Bandon Dunes. We really enjoyed having him at UST and will forever be thankful that he had that experience. I also lived my dream of being a 3rd and 4th grade teacher and developing relationships with families and students that I will never forget. I was so lucky to have been at a school in which I could include God in my discussions each and every day. I had the support of parents, faculty, and friends. I felt blessed to have received a "Teacher of the Year" award and celebrated with my students. Those same people were there for me in the lowest and highest times of my life. We were far from our families, and our Texas friends became family to us.

We were blessed to get a great house for us. We loved when we added to our little family and brought Laney into our lives. She is amazing and will always be our first baby. Some other experiences we had over the next few years are forever etched in our hearts. This decade brought many travels including trips to China, Mexico with some dear friends, Alaska to stay with a former student (I told you they were amazing), Colorado to witness our sister getting married, Kansas to witness our brother getting married, Florida to see family, New England to witness gorgeous fall foliage, Wisconsin to visit a friend and see a fantastic hot air balloon festival, Chicago a couple of times once for a wedding, the beaches of the Gulf of Mexico, San Antonio, Houston's NASA, too many trips up and down I-35 to come "home" and to go "home" (funny how Kansas and Texas each were called home to us), Arkansas too many times to count, thru the middle state of Oklahoma, Arizona, Nebraska, St. Louis, Orlando, Oregon, Seattle, California, and so, so many other locations. We are blessed!!!!! These travels allowed us to attend weddings, graduations, funerals, family reunions, vacations, get aways, holidays, visits with new babies, trips to see family who was sick, job trips, and much more. Some of these trips were taken together, some were separate trips, but each was special and treasured. If I ever mention I love to travel, you can understand that I TRULY mean it!

This decade has brought about a lot of change in our lives as well. As I mentioned, we have had some lows in this time. My mother was diagnosed with breast cancer, and being 360 miles away could have meant being a universe away. I won't ever forget when I heard the news. I won't forget seeing her lying there after her surgery, after her chemo. Thank God she is fine and healthy today! We also fought thru 5 years of infertility, which was hard! I can now easily look back and understand that God did have His own plan for us. If we had been able to have a child right away, I wouldn't have the beautiful babies in my life that I call my own. I wouldn't have taught more years and been around those precious children. We wouldn't have traveled to so many places. Our lives would have turned out differently. Funny to think that at the beginning of the decade I longed to hear the pitter-patters, and now I hear it so loudly ever day! Funny how we fought thru infertility and we ended up with 3 babies within 3 3/4 years! This decade brought us a robbery of our house, making me lose a bit of innocence. One week later, 9/11 brought about a destruction of innocence for our entire country, and a loss of so much more. This decade also brought about happy times, like celebrating 10 blissful years with my hunny!

But, the highlights of the decade: I will never forget the phone call that announced Emerald would be joining our family. I will never forget as they brought her into the room to place her in our arms, for forever! I will never forget the 2nd phone call, announcing our incredible son's entry into our lives and the sweet way Emerald got to help me announce the news to daddy. Neither will I forget getting to see Calvin for the first time, eyes wide and a little nervous looking, probably mirroring mine as I had no idea how to raise a son. Then there was the day that I got to share some news of a surprise pregnancy with my husband. We were told that it would probably never happen for us. God had a plan! That special day when Zachary scared me so much as he made his first appearance into the world, a little too early. That sweet day when we finally got to bring him home and have all my munchkins under one roof! There are many memories over the last decade, but these stand out most to me!!!!! These babies are my life, they are my everything, and I will forever hold them in my heart.

There are so many more things that have happened this decade. Our relocation, Skip's new job, our sweet nephews entering our lives, a car accident, the continued love I feel every day for my angel of a husband. I am blessed, oh so blessed! There is very little I need, very little I even want in life b/c we are taken care of. I can say that this decade has been good. I look forward to another good year and many more memories to be made with my precious cargo! I guess you can say, we are ENJOYING OUR JOURNEY!!!
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Monday, January 11, 2010

Their first "sleepover"


Emerald loved sleeping in the closet, but loved having Jessie there even more!

We were surprised at how well Calvin did with Noah. This is how they started, Calvin ended up in the closet, too (had to be just like his sis).

Emerald and Jessie, they love to play dress up!

Noah enjoying some snacks--we always have too much to eat on New Year's Eve

We enjoyed our New Year's Eve with our friends, Brian & Rene and their sweet kids, Jessie and Noah. Jessie is a little older than Emers, and Noah is about 6 months older than Cal. We were excited to find out that they are having a baby boy in May!! It is kind of neat that our kids are all so close in age to each other. The favorite part for the kids was the fact that they got to have a sleepover together. I foresee many sleepovers in my future, as that is all Emerald has talked about since.

Rene & I were college roommates and Skip & Brian were neighbors. We had fun playing K-State-opoly until nearly 3 AM! We felt it the next day! We were supposed to celebrate together last year, but we had a little too much chaos as 2008 turned to 2009. What fun to have lifetime friends!
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Christmas pics





Somehow I forgot to post these with our Christmas posts. I have GOT to learn some photo shop options. I had several good shots of one person, but not another. I need to crop them together, I guess. Why is it so hard for 3 kids to smile and look at the camera at the same time??? They are pretty cute kids, though, so I guess I'll keep them.

On a totally unrelated note--Zachary pulled up in his crib last night. He shocked us as we came in to get him (he was stored in there for safe keeping, or so we thought, as Emerald was getting a bath). We lowered the crib before he went to sleep that night. He is pulling up to his knees all the time, but as he was standing there, he was doing a very nice job.
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Thursday, January 7, 2010

Calvin's fun present


Calvin was thrilled to get a train for Christmas!

Calvin running his train for the first time. This is why I love being a mommy. Look at that face, who wouldn't love that?



Preparing the train to run. I don't know who was more excited, Calvin, Emerald, Zachary, or my dad :)Posted by Picasa

Christmas round #2


Had to put this happy frog pic in of my Skipper

Grandpa holding Zach--Z loves to throw himself backwards

Grandma reading a story to the kids

A collage of Christmas round #2
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More family times


The "cousins" picture. Surely this will get easier when they are a little older, right?

Zach getting a birthday hug from Pop Pop

Uncle Shane holding Josiah

My kids with both sets of grandparents.
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Simon is so sweet


Loved having our sweet nephew here for a few days. He is growing up so fast!

He tolerated the big kids well.

Having fun with Nana.
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Enjoying our gifts





We really enjoyed the gift of family this Christmas! It was awesome to just be able to spend time together. Aren't these kids just the cutest? Funny to think that we were all together 2 years ago at Christmas and there were only 2 of these munchkins! Now it is a busy time with all 5!!

Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Happy first birthday Zachary


Our crazy boy has this thing with blinking his eyes anytime the camera comes out.
Check out Zachary's new skill. This gift from Santa has been great. It really encourages him to get up on his knees. He has been pulling up to his knees all the time since Christmas, and has pulled up (in his own way) to "standing" several other times.
Our sweet baby boy is one!!
Singing Happy Birthday, he ate up the attention. We sang the day after his actual bday b/c we had all of Skip's family here that day. He had all his cousins, aunts, uncle (Jeff just missed it), and one set of grandparents. Not bad for one little guy!
Not so thrilled with tasting the frosting. Like I've said before, he's not really ready for actual cake yet.
Zachary turned one 2 days after Christmas! We didn't do too much (we already had the party), but did make a cake and sang with the family. I think Zach just enjoyed getting to play with his cousins and siblings. Simon was sweet and shared a shiner with him :) Really they were playing with the same toy and it bumped against his eye just enough to make it a little black/blue-ish. Boys will be boys!
We took Zach the next day for his well child check. He got 5 shots! Yuck! Our little man is up to 17 lb 13 oz!!! Huge in comparison to last year, but still not quite on the growth charts. He was 28 3/4" long, which keeps him on the charts somewhere between 10 & 25th %. He tall and thin like his daddy!
We talked a lot about PT and Mike wants us to continue that. We also talked about my concerns with his eating. Mike referred us to OT (occupational therapy) to be evaluated. We will do that on Jan. 19th. We got the go ahead to switch to milk, work on getting off the bottle, and to try to increase his fluid intake, especially with his lower weight. But with his other feeding issues, I'm going to try to just keep things more or less the same until our appointment. I hope they can give us some suggestions.
Zach has done many crawling "steps" but his preferred method is still the army crawl. He is an expert at getting up our step now and is getting into more trouble now :) Like I mentioned, he is pulling up to his knees all the time now, which we love to see. The PT says that he may just be too busy at this age to worry about sitting up and will accomplish this later on. When they are younger, sitting seems like so much fun. Now that he realizes he can move, he'd rather be on the move than worry about sitting still. As he works on pulling up and keeping his balance on his knees and feet, the core muscles will be getting stronger. I still think the hardest thing about not sitting up yet is bath time. It really takes 2 people, one to hold him up and the other to scrub him clean. This while he is so busy kicking like a frog.
Isn't it funny how much difference a year can make? Reading back thru posts of a year ago--well, let's just say I wouldn't want to re-live that time for anything. So happy my baby boy came through it all with flying colors! So glad Em & Cal survived the chaos of life. So glad Skip and I have a strong marriage and he was able to put up with me thru that time. I love my life!!!! Right now it is looking pretty good!Posted by Picasa

Some birthday pics of our 1 year old


Lobster has either shrunk, or this just proves our little guy is growing up!

It is pretty tough to get him to sit still these days

Zachary enjoyed helping make his birthday cake

Working on sitting up. Emerald was helping him out here.
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